I am daily amazed at the steady stream of horrors my pregnant friends and clients are subjected to. Do you know how you are watering the seed of fear that many women hide deep in their minds? In your quest of perhaps healing your own wounds or flashing your badges of honor, you are adding tension and pain to these other women, possibly endangering herself and her unborn children.
Speak encouragment and words to strengthen and build up. But, most of all, and if nothing else.... listen.